I want to write something about love,
but I don't know how to start up
since I'm still single.
There's quite amount of my friends are in the relationship,
some of them already engaged,and
some of them already married and they already have their own kids.
They seem fine,but we never know "behind the scene".
Just like one of my friends,she married and give birth to a daughter.
However,she divorced after that.
I wonder why,just because of her financial problem.
My best friend told me:"The main problem and failure of her marriage
is her honesty and attitude".
Yes,I think so.
She didn't told her husband honestly about her problem.
When one in love,they can be suddenly blind by love.
They don't think about or plan more longer.
In my perception,marriage is longer plan which should be forever,
not just a few days,few months or few years dating life.
We're gonna live together,facing each other everyday.
"My friend,since you got a daughter,why you still choosing divorce?
Don't you ever think about her future feeling and grow up without father?"
If she doesn't end it up her problem at her generation,
the problem stem and will be getting bigger & bigger to her next generation.
We helped her because we're best friend before,
but her attitude disappointing us and she isn't
reflecting her fault yet.
After realizing she wont change if she doesn't learn a lesson,
so we start to leave her.
It's not because we dislike her,
it's because she had already gave up on herself.
There's a bit related to the friendship in the topic.
But,it tells us in love,honesty and your attitude towards love is very important.
You must believe the person you need to be together for your whole life,
and you must believe love does exist.
Love does exist just depend how you think about it and
do you believe it or not.
